Dating an illiterate man
So, as for you being drained, i think it is the combination of everything happening to your life at the same time.
There is this saying i came up with years ago "fix what you can now and move on to the next problem" before you know it you have fixed everything the way YOU want. As women we are natural born fixers no, not the kind of fix it like a roof or a car but emotionally and inner-strength fixing.
At that time, he had a good job in a warehouse and never occurred to me the extent of his illiteracy.
He was able to live on his own, got a well paying job and paid his bills on time.
You really can not blame your family because at one point in time you loved this man enough to sleep with him to get your beautiful family you have now.
At the State Courts on Wednesday (23 January), Yap pleaded guilty to four cheating charges and one count of forgery.
Another four cheating charges will be taken into consideration for his sentencing, which is expected to be on 14 March.
You should pick up the slack regardless and push him through try tough love.
You obviously love him enough to come here and ask for help.