Introverted guys and dating
Use it well, and you may discover it’s a quality the ladies will find most attractive about you.Joshua Rogers is an attorney and writer who lives in Washington, D. Lay a foundation of confidence, develop your leadership, and set the stage for an exciting, fulfilling relationship in one or both of our 12-week high-touch coaching programs. But just like all the others, something was missing. Finding “the one” isn’t exclusively an introvert problem, but we introverts face certain challenges that extroverts don’t.I know, it’s easier to get away with this tactic when you’re a woman and traditional dating etiquette says the man should make the first move. I’d drive myself crazy trying to work up the courage to walk over to him — and then what would I even say?Usually any attempts at this ended in me mumbling some small talk, then giving up.
We’d had a fine-enough time noshing Thai food in a trendy downtown restaurant.Many introverts are intensely interested in meaning. Some of my favorite “dates” were not actually dates at all, but simply times when the stars seemed to align and I made an authentic connection.Like the time I dragged myself to an extroverted friend’s birthday party at a noisy, crowded dance club (ugggggg) and ended up finding a fellow introvert who also didn’t want to be there.I think one thing that would help introverted men is to recognize how they’re coming across to women.An introverted guy is uniquely positioned to make good and bad impressions, depending on how he handles himself.